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Monday, September 26, 2011

perceptions..

running through facebook sometimes makes you wonder what happen to the friendship with people you were friends with (and are still friends on your facebook).

could it be through some gossips that some may change their perception of you and decided you unworthy to keep up as friends hence when we actually do meet up, there will be this weird tension? it does not stop with just that friend due to the small circle of friends we have, it has this ripple effect. for those who might not even know you that well would 'have known' about you.

sometimes you wonder about the choices you made which will in turn affect the relationship with other people. sometimes you did nothing at all which also affect the relationship with other people. it kinda sucks where there are some kind of people who are such black sheep because they failed to gain anything, they decided to ruin other people's life through gossips.

maybe see this as an elimination process. the strongest of all shall stand to be your true friend.

and also, perhaps facebook has made a good point out of everything for this new upgrades, they added such function of list for friends called acquaintances. i guess after a period of time, friends i used to have should be all classified under there. only best friends are friends. all else, they wouldn't really be friends.